Before you can make your wife happy, there’s something you need to know about her…

It is REALLY important to your wife that you’re truly listening and paying attention to her when you say you are.

Sounds easy enough, right? But there’s a catch:

Your wife knows when you are really paying attention and when you are not.

You might look like you’re listening. You might act like you’re listening. But your wife intuitively knows if you’re tuning her out!

So what do you do?

A man who is operating from his masculine core has a stronger tendency to only be able to tune into one thing at a time.

So when your wife wants to talk with you, you must decide if now is the best time to tune in to her. Ask yourself, “Can I give my wife 100% of my attention right now?”

If the answer is no, don’t just tune her out or tell her no! Lovingly tell your wife you want to give her all your attention—and determine a time (that same day!) that you will be available to do that.

For example, she might try to talk to you while you are watching a football game, working on a project, or reading the newspaper. If you are already involved in an activity that has your attention, lovingly tell her you want to give her 100% of your attention and decide together when that time will be.

This will make your wife happier than you know

When you have chosen to listen to your wife, give her ABSOLUTELY 100% OF YOUR ATTENTION.

Do nothing else but look at her and listen, really hearing what she is saying. You will be amazed by how much more quickly she wraps it up when you do this, because she knows she is being heard.

It is only when your attention is divided that your wife intuitively knows you are not hearing her, and she will demand more time to express herself. Try it out and see if you make your wife happy today.

May you and your wife hear and honor one another’s needs—and be happy together!

God Bless You,
Carol Tuttle

PS. Last week, I gave some advice to wives about how to help your husbands hear you. If you missed it, read it here: 3 Surprising Reasons Your Husband Doesn’t Listen to You.

PPS. If you want to better understand the nature of masculine and feminine energy in marriage, listen to my audio recording on Marital Bliss.

Ready to stop making a big mistake? Meet Heather. She takes some serious accountability for her life in today’s mini-healing session. You can learn a lot from her.

Here’s the story: Heather’s created a lot of really great things in her life, both personally and professionally. But…

…she’s a little scared that the good times won’t last. Do you ever worry about that?

Let the Good Times Last

You only sabotage yourself because of inner beliefs that don’t serve you.

In Heather’s case, things are going so well that they seem unbelievable to her. The fact that she can’t believe them tells me she’s buying into a core belief that might sabotage her success.

Watch the video to find out what that belief is—and see how Heather takes charge of it. Do the mini-healing exercise with us. And make your good times last!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FK265fU69SQ

Now that you’ve watched that quick session, do you recognize places in your life where you sabotage yourself? You don’t have to anymore.

Like I said in the video, we love to be challenged, but we don’t need to struggle!

Stop Struggling and Start Thriving

Attract good things to your life! Here are a few affirmations to help you out. Come back to the affirmations in the video if you need more:

• Even though this feels unbelievable, I’m changing that and I’m believing it’s possible.
• Even though I haven’t believed I deserve this, I now choose that I do.
• I’m noticing any of my tendencies that might sabotage this. I can take care of them.

Here’s the big one to remember…

• It is so believable what’s happening to me!

Leave a comment with your own affirmation.

I hope you will stop any self sabotage in your life—and create an experience you enjoy!

For more support in doing this, check out my Remembering Wholeness Home Study Course, and all the other great resources at caroltuttle.com.

You’ve heard me talk about manifesting money before. But what if you’re a stay at home mom?

How do you flow more money into your life if you’re at home with the kids?

I’ve received this question several times throughout the years, and I want to ask you two vital questions to help you start to really bring the money in.

1. Do you know your Energy Profile?

Knowing and understanding your Energy Profile is key to the process of creating the life you want. Why? Watch the video to hear how money can show up for different Energy Types, and how it can affect the way you and your husband manifest.

2. Do you know what you believe?

Lack of money is just a symptom of limiting beliefs and perceptions. And there’s one particular belief that might be especially limiting you as a stay at home mom. As long as you hold onto it, you won’t be able to bring in extra money. Watch the video to hear what it is, find out how to release it, and let money show up for you!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uWFzJpbZetk

I hope these tips woke you up to some of your own limiting beliefs. Release them and see the money start to flow! You can make money from home—even if your job as a full-time mother doesn’t include a paycheck.

Please share your own tips, ideas, or questions in a comment below. What affirmations do you use to support yourself in manifesting more money in your life?

If you don’t have the manifesting tools I talked about in this video, get them for yourself. Don’t waste anymore time feeling like you’re stuck and struggling.

My Manifesting More Money Boot Camp will give you over 24 hours of audio and visual content (plus a 60-page workbook) to help you open up yourself to possibilities of abundance you never imagined!

There’s plenty of advice out there about how to be yourself… especially around the opposite sex.

But a lot of that advice sounds like hard work. It shouldn’t be difficult to be your very best self!

Meet Leah. She’s a teenager who worries about turning into a drama queen when she’s with guys. In today’s mini-healing session, we get to the root of her anxiety. Leah has a lot to teach you about your own self-acceptance, no matter your age.

Being Yourself Goes Deeper Than a Date

Leah is an upward, light Type 1 in my Energy Profiling system—the only one in her large family.

And there’s a negative message she’s believing about herself that goes into overdrive when she’s dating. Watch the video to find out why she stops acting like herself. The reason might surprise you!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RxPHSHEZnrI

What do you think? Do you have any other advice for Leah? Please share a comment.

How to Keep Being Yourself… Your BEST Self

You will be more successful in relationships when you stay true to yourself.

If you ever struggle with accepting and being yourself, just come back to the exercise Leah did with me. The affirmations I shared can be very supportive for you. Here are just a few to remind you:

• Even though I’m not sure how to stay true to myself, I’m trusting I will be able to.
• I’m perfect being who I am.
• It’s easy being myself in any relationship.
• I’m having fun dating; that’s all it is. It’s just dating and it’s perfect for me right now.

The best advice I gave Leah? Be where you are in the moment. Love yourself right now.

If you don’t know your Energy Profile yet, start learning today. Why? It’s the best tool around to help you understand and love yourself. Get all the resources you need with the Energy Profiling Bundle.

Imagine yourself a year from now.

Will you be as happy, strong, and healthy as you want to be?

Or will you still carry some energetic wounds and limiting beliefs that need healing?

The choice is yours, of course. You have the power to create your own life.

I know how important support can be in your journey toward healing and light.

I want you to just read the table of contents from my book, Remembering Wholeness, to see if anything here resonates with you. Are there any chapters on this list you’d like to know more about?

1. Energy What?
2. We Choose Every Thought We Think and We Can Create Any Thought We want
3. Energy Follows Thought and Every Subconscious and Conscious Thought Creates Our Lives
4. We Choose Our Perception and Our Perception Becomes Our Reality
5. Whatever We Put Out Returns to Us Multiplied
6. We Create What We Experience
7. Our Most Powerful Point of Creation Is in the Present Moment
8. We Have Always Been Whole
9. Birth Leaves an Imprint that Starts Our Life as a Struggle
10. The Power and Purpose of Negative Emotion
11. Affirmations Work
12. Physical Disease Has an Emotional and Mental Origin
13. Why We Hold on to Disease and Disharmony
14. Energy Healing for Depression
15. Healing Can Happen Quickly
16. Receive Your Healing Now
17. The Earth Has a Soul and Is Changing
18. We can Change the Way We Feel Instantly
19. The Universe Always Holds Us Accountable
20. Everything We Experience Outside Ourselves Is Just a Mirror for Us
21. Your Energy Speaks Louder than Your Words
22. How Much Joy Can You Hold?
23. We Are All One
24. Everyone is Psychic
25. Unconditional Love Is the Most Powerful Force in the Universe
26. Angels Are Among Us
27. How to Petition Your Angels
28. The Power of Synchronicity
29. You Are a Creator
30. I Am Doing Everything You Teach—Why Can’t I Manifest What I Want?
31. Energizing Your Beliefs to Manifest More of What You Want
32. Your Child May Be a Highly Evolved Master Being
33. Knowledge Has Organizing Power Inherent in It
34. The Purpose of the Planet
35. We Lived As Spirits Before We Came to Earth
36. Each of Us Has Spiritual Brothers and Sisters Who Are Not in Our Biological Family
37. We All Made Sacred Agreements Before We Came to Earth
38. Saviors on Mount Zion
39. Do You Believe in the Real God?
40. How to Have Your Own Conversation With God
41. Feel Your Prayers
42. All the Answers Are Inside of Us
43. Everyone in Your Life Plays a Part in Your Play, With a Script You Have Given Them
44. Since Everyone in Your Life Plays a Part in Your Play—With a Script You Have Given Them—You Can Change the Scripts Any Time
45. How to Keep Yourself Stuck
46. It’s About Healing Marriages, Not Breaking Them Up
47. The Ten Lies We Think Are Love
48. It’s About Healing Families, Not Breaking Them Up
49. Messages Your Children Need to Hear
50. Your Spirit Is Whole and Complete
51. Forgiveness Is Not Optional
52. There Is Enough Money for Everyone
53. The Universe Is Abundant
54. Serving Others Helps Us Remember Our Wholeness
55. The Power of Appreciation and Gratitude
56. The Test Is Ending
57. Remembering Our Future
58. I Believe in Christ
59. There Is a Christ in All of Us
60. Charity: The Pure Love of Christ

Use Remembering Wholeness as a guide for your emotional healing and growth. What do you want to improve in your life this year? How do you want to thrive? This book can inspire  you.

Already read Remembering Wholeness? I’m so glad. I hope you are truly thriving!

Leave a comment and share which idea from the book has stuck with you the most. Which concepts have been most healing and supportive for you?

Now think of a friend who might benefit from the messages in this book. Consider sending them this blog post or getting them a copy of the book. Share the message that in order to be truly happy, we need to remember the truth of who we are.

God Bless You,
Carol Tuttle

PS. Get a copy of Remembering Wholeness here.

Let me make a New Year’s prediction…

People everywhere will make resolutions to lose weight and make money. They’ll write lists of things to do and places to go. But before the year’s up, they’ll forget or give up on at least half of them. New Year’s resolutions are a tradition that might not actually serve us very well.

So what if I suggested that you throw out your New Year’s resolutions and try something else?

Don’t get me wrong. I want you to do great things this year.

But I know you can accomplish them better by getting in touch with your true, authentic self first. Then your life will naturally manifest in harmony with the amazing person you already are!

Watch the video to see what I mean. And learn a technique that will help you get in touch with 14 energetic pathways in your body to activate the truth and power already inside you.

Ditch the New Year’s resolutions. And get ready to create your best year ever!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K2j7GHEWMt4

Instead of resolutions for the New Year, I hope you try affirmations. Change your year from the inside out!

If you need a reminder or some inspiration, come back to the affirmations I shared in the video.
Here are just a few:

• I am loving myself exactly where I am.
• I am grateful for all the lessons I learned last year. They are making a difference this year.
• I am living my truth, and in that truth, I contribute to the whole.

What, specifically, do you want to focus on in this year? Write your own New Year’s affirmation! I’d love you to share it in a comment.

I want you to understand your nature better so you can offer your best self to your family and community. Make this year a truly pivotal one for you by discovering your Energy Profile. Get a copy of It’s Just My Nature and three other great resources to help you out in my Energy Profiling Bundle.

Let’s create an energy of hope and understanding in the world this year!

It is hard to believe we are saying goodbye to another year.

I hope this year has been one of learning and growth, patience and understanding, and celebration and memorable experiences for you.

It is not easy being alive at this time on the earth. We are being asked to expand and open, to let go of what is no longer serving us.

I am sure you had some struggles this year. The good news is you got through it! You are a better person because of it. You have learned many lessons and will bring them in to the new year. Hurray for you!

Please take some time today or tomorrow to list 10 things you have learned this year that will bless your life in 2012. Here are mine:

1. I learned to love myself more and be more patient with my growth.
2. I learned that I will be a grandma two more times next year!
3. I learned how to communicate with my husband in a manner that honors him and me both.
4. I learned to really love and honor my parents as they live the last few years of their life.
5. I learned how to wake surf without using the tow rope on the back of our boat!
6. I learned how to win more tennis matches because I put in a lot of time practicing.
7. I learned I love to serve people and help them more than I have ever felt in my life.
8. I learned to let go of things that really, really don’t matter.
9. I learned more about how to parent a child true to their nature.
10. I decided to write my next book and learned how very excited I am about that.

If you felt last year that you had to learn and grow through struggle, consider the possibility that this year, you can learn and grow through joy! How much joy can you hold? I really want you to find out this year.

I would love to hear what you learned in 2011. Please share in a comment. And then go use those things you learned to create an amazing new year in 2012!

God Bless You,
Carol Tuttle

PS. I’m excited to support you in creating fabulous experiences in 2012. Come back here to the blog on Monday to hear a new twist on New Year’s resolutions. I think you’ll really enjoy it.

Happy New Year!

This sounds too easy, but I want you to try it…

Whenever you feel overwhelmed this week, just take a big sigh and let it go.

I don’t mean just one breath in and out. Let me tell you what I mean by a big sigh. And then let’s practice together so you can stop feeling overwhelmed, right now!

Take a deep breath in, pull your shoulders up towards your ears, and tighten up your body…

Now breathe it all out, drop your shoulders, loosen all your muscles, and shake out like a dog…

And let that energy go. Feel all that up-tight energy physically leaving your body.

Now that you have let it go from your body, really let it go….

Turn it over to your angels, to God, and all the spiritual powers that BE to take care of it for you.

The next time you start feeling negative or overwhelmed, pay attention to the negative emotion.

Stop and ask yourself and God: What am I currently thinking, believing, or choosing that is causing me to feel overwhelmed?

Stay quiet and you will receive the answer. Listen to your inner guidance system.

Ask God to bless you with an understanding and perception of your experience that will invite and awaken peaceful, soothing feelings inside of you instead.

Ask to have negative feelings cleared from the deepest parts of your cells. And then be willing to let them go!

Now remember: take a big sigh… and let it go.

You will be amazed how much better everything works out for you.

Rejoice!

God Bless You,
Carol Tuttle
Master Energy Therapist

PS. Don’t let yourself get overwhelmed this time of year. I’ve created so many resources to support you in letting go of negative feelings and limiting beliefs. Give yourself the comfort and help you need by clicking here.

A lot of people will choose to overeat this holiday weekend. But you don’t have to be one of them!

Yes, you can set your intentions. Yes, you can listen to your body.

But have you considered the science of overeating? I think this pretty interesting…

Serotonin is the key.

Serotonin is one of your body’s “feel-good” hormones. Balanced levels of serotonin in your system help you feel confident and relaxed.

There are lots of factors that encourage your body to produce serotonin. Sunlight is the biggest one. So guess what happens when the days get shorter? Your body needs to find another way to encourage serotonin production—and a lot of people reach for the sugar.

Check out this quick article that talks about serotonin, plus 10 great tips to help you “control your inner cookie monster.”

Here’s one of my favorite tips that Mark Nelson shares:

Flip your script. So you slipped and ate two of Grandma’s killer chocolate chunk cookies. Rather than say, “I blew my diet, so why not just keep eating?” take a breath. Smile and say, “No big deal. I can stop now and still feel good about myself.”

Try out some of his other tips. And make sure you make time for exercise and other things this week that will increase your serotonin levels.

Take care of your body this weekend!

God Bless You,
Carol Tuttle

PS. For 5 more surprisingly easy tips to steer clear of holiday weight gain, check out this post from a few weeks ago to help you avoid holiday overeating.

Or treat yourself to a copy of my CD, Clearing the Emotional Issues That Are Keeping You Fat! This audio resource will take you through several easy-to-understand energy clearing techniques to release your emotional self from food and overeating.

Need the perfect fix for a bad day?

I have some tips for you. And they start with something surprising. Find out what’s REALLY going on when you’re experiencing a bad day…

Where Your Bad Day Actually Comes From

When you’re experiencing a bad day or a bad week, you look for a reason. Your mind wants a story to explain why things have gone wrong, so you can figure out and fix it.

But step back for a minute and consider a bigger picture.

I want to offer a shift in your perspective to help you recognize what’s happening to your energetic system on “bad days.” When you shift your perception, you will naturally move through intense energy more gracefully.

Watch the video to see what I mean.

What to Do About a Bad Day

Do 2 simple energy techniques to move through the intense energy that triggers your bad days. I’ll show you in this video exactly how they work.

You’ll be so glad you took a moment to watch it. In just a few minutes, you’ll be feeling calmer, happier and more connected to your higher purpose.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cAvs3KKL07M

Don’t you feel better now? A little calmer? I would love to know how these techniques are helping you. What are YOUR suggestions to fix a bad day? Share a comment with your thoughts.

And remember: This too shall pass! Your bad day is only energy moving through you.

If you need some more reminders, use these affirmations and the others I shared in the video:

• I am getting answers to my life situations and challenges.
• I am successfully moving through this.
• I am patient as I have these more challenging days.

I want to give you support so you don’t experience intense energy as bad days anymore.

Try my home-study course, Energy Healing 101 and More! I believe so strongly that it can help you create the life you’ve always dreamed of. And there’s no other course out there quite like it.

Stop having bad days. Start Energy Healing 101 and More.