How is your relationship with your mom? If you are struggling and feel your relationship is compromised, just consider that you may not understand her true nature. Even though you were once the child, you are now the adult and in your role as an adult child you can bring healing to your relationship. I have met many people who have struggled with their Type 3, take charge, go, go, go moms. Being one of those moms I understand the nature of these women. I encourage you to watch with an open heart and allow healing to flow to you and your mom. If you have a great relationship with your Type 3 mom, kudo’s to you for loving and supporting her in living her truth. Share the Beauty Profile Bundle with your mom this year. Just go to http://dressingyourtruth.com Helping your mom live her truth is one of the greatest gifts you can give her.
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April 26th, 2011 at 6:14 pm
Haha. This is Anne. I am noticing what a soft speaker I am. I will be sure to project my voice a little more in the future videos. It has also been brought even more to my attention this week how important it is as a Type 2 to be direct, clear and unassuming while communicating with Type 3′s!
April 28th, 2011 at 9:05 am
First, I apologize for leaving the e off at the end of your name in my post. I am very particular about those sorts of things. Anyway, I commend you for your recognition of how soft you speak! I am frequently telling my type 2 daughter to speak up, quit mumbling, blah blah blah (by the way, I NAG a whole lot more when I am not living my true natural type 4, when I am stressed out and lead with my type 3 it is not a pleasant thing for anyone, especially my type 2 daughter and type 1 husband). I don’t know how to embrace that aspect of her nature. HELP!
May 10th, 2011 at 8:12 am
I especially love seeing Anne and Carol interact. I have a Type 2 sister and another I am sure is a 3 (she is unaware of Typing and definitely dresses as a 1 most of the time. She cracks us up). I relate so well to the both of them. Sadly I think I relate to the 3 when I am (like Suzanna said) nagging and cranky. I do not feel like I am being true to myself when I live that way. This video helps me to take a closer look at both of my sisters though and honor their motherhood as well.
April 28th, 2011 at 9:02 am
I really appreciated this video. I am dominately a type 4 but I also relate a great deal with type 3 and hearing the discussion about children’s interaction with a type 3 mother rang true for me. I am really eager to see the type 4 video…bring it on! I have been really focusing on being true to myself in my parenting, yet also remembering my daughters and their true nature and embracing their energy rather than forcing conformity to my ideals. Thank you Carol and Ann.
May 2nd, 2011 at 11:24 am
Suzanna,
What are some of the things you are doing to stay true to your nature as a T4 mom? Do you stay home? Sometimes I feel like I’m just too bold for my family. . .
Thanks.
May 2nd, 2011 at 12:45 pm
That is a great question. I am still learning about myself, but the big thing for me is remaining home. I am very detailed and organized and structured. Working outside my home creates utter chaos in my life and soul. That won’t be true for all type 4s, but for me I love to be in complete control of my day, I have much more peace by doing so. I also realize now why quite time has always been a valued time period of each day, for me and my children. Oh yes, Love love love quiet time. I have found my kids really appreciate it as well. They come back from quite time (now it is only in the summers or during school breaks) rejuvinated and also balanced.
May 2nd, 2011 at 2:45 pm
Now I am wondering if I am a 4/3 rather than a 4/1! That’s exactly how I wish our children would respond when I ask them to help with something. Why should I have to explain why, why should they just take their time to do it? (this definitely sounds like whining,…..a T3 whining in fact!) Hmmm…
May 19th, 2011 at 10:40 am
As a 3, I really am an open communicator and my Type 2 husband and adult Type 2 son know this and still enjoy a bit of power playing with me by making me have to ask repeatedly for something that truly is needed in the moment to know. They think it’s funny; I feel unloved and disrespected.
I have had to just leave them out of things and if they don’t like what I made for dinner, for example, I don’t keep much at home as back up. I asked and asked and okay, no answer and it needs to be made, then this is what you get.
I do NOT enjoy this way of being at all. I do not like to ever have to nag and feel played when this happens. All of us need to be responsible to communicate what we mean and feel in a way we can be understood and should value someone caring enough to want our input, not punished for it.