Every person has their emotional buttons pushed and gets upset at other people. We all have our pity party’s in response to feeling we are not being honored for who we are! Which Type of the 4 Types in Carol’s Energy and Beauty Profiling systems has the “pouty” pity party?” Watch and learn how to not let this get the best of you! Does this sound like you? What’s your Type? Learn in my books what Type you are! http://dressingyourtruth.com and http://myenergyprofile.com
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August 31st, 2010 at 3:15 pm
How do the other types support a Type 2, particularly one who doesn’t know Energy Profiling? Should we try to increase our sensitivity to them when they are feeling this way, if that is not our primary gift/natural movement?
September 7th, 2010 at 9:46 am
Good post. Very good information.
I have a question. How do I separate what you teach from the gospel of Jesus Christ? I see these 4 types you are teaching of as different expressions of natural man. I don’t necessarily see myself in any particular type all of the time. I see rather a moment to moment expression of the “natural man” and it varies so much it is hard to tell what my dominant type is 100% of the time. I’m learning to be more compassionate and whole as a “type 3″ and my characteristics have changed even since I have done the profiling and the DYT course. I’m softer and gentler and yes, more sensitive! I still express explosively sometimes but the more I learn of Christ and remember Him the less that happens, the less dysfunctional I become and the more “type 1,2,and 4″ positive qualities I possess.
Some of your stuff has felt very true and I’ve appreciated your insights. The biggest help for me in my journey has still been reading and studying the words of Christ as given through His prophets and then applying that to my life. I am starting to not see people so much in the 4 groups you have listed, but as very highly unique souls with their own paths in life.
Your teachings have been helpful, but I wonder sometimes if you are setting yourself up as a light?
I guess I’m a little sensitive to that because through these last 5 years, I have studied so much energy stuff from so many authors and teachers in the energy world that I was letting it supplant Christ and His atonement in my life. I have recently had to do a lot of backtracking and soul searching. The gospel of Jesus Christ is so simple, but it really works! I know that now more than ever before.
I still love you and your information but I am not as tied to it as I was. And I am not so dependent on you and what you teach to tell me what is right for me. I am happy with that. It feels good to me. Your teachings have been an important stepping stone. However, I came through some difficult moments trying to sort out what is true for me. I have come to know that the only way to true peace and answers that are right for me, is to pray to God and ask Him. He has enlightened me more about who I am than anyone else ever could! Why not go to the source, right?
All the best to you, Carol, on your journey!
September 7th, 2010 at 12:43 pm
Congratulations @Suzanne, you are more fully living your truth and following your own compass as it should be. We are all lights but if we let others be a light for us without following our own first, we will create them disappointing us and believe they are leading us astray from our own light and the light of Christ. I believe Energy Profiling shows us the nature of our humanness and Remembering Wholeness I teach about our Divine Nature, both are working simultaneously within us to create joy. The more awareness we have of these “nature’s” the more we can consciously create within the construct of truth. As you are living more consciously true to your Type 3 nature, more balance occurs, when you were not aware of it, you most likely were at odds with certain aspects of it, which creates angst.
Knowing about my human nature, my Type 3, along with understanding my Divine Nature have been tremendous blessings in helping me live true to myself. What I teach is my contribution to help others live what is true for them. It is a common tendency for Type 3′s to go really “big” in to something and then to have to re-evaluate as they may have gone a “little too far!” Rather than “throw the baby out with the bath water” which is another Type 3 tendency, allow balance to be created. Sounds like your writing me a farewell notice! It’s your journey, live it true to you.
September 7th, 2010 at 12:59 pm
One more thought, why the need to separate anything? I teach self-help truths, truths that help us live more peacefully in the practical areas of our lives- communication within relationships, parenting skills, understanding our human nature so we can manage it more consciously, self-healing techniques based on our amazing energy bodies and physical bodies. You might find some comfort in knowing that in that little special blessing many of us of our faith receive in our teens, well in mine it says that I will be a teacher of truth to many and my ability to share and teach truth will amaze me and others! And it will all be used to help people live a more Christ-like life. I believe I am living that blessing out- and it sure is a lot of fun! It’s up to you to maintain the balance that is appropriate for your life with whoever you allow to be a teacher in our life.
September 7th, 2010 at 3:23 pm
awesome answer. I needed to hear that. Thank you for taking the time to write. I am trying to figure out where all of this information that is so abundant right now in our world fits for me and my family. I realize that I have to be careful in what I am teaching my kids because they take it even bigger than I do! Also, I have some spiritual gifts that I am not sure what to do with. I have wondered why I am so passionate about helping others. Why can’t I just let people live their lives? It seems to be the trend now days to start a business and “go big” with things. Your explanation of that through energy profiling sounds right. Yes, I do have that tendency too. Is it only types 3 that get out of balance there? And I have seen people go too far with things. I just found out that an aunt of mine has chosen a completely different path than I want to go and it scared me. She has been reading and studying alternate healing methods for 30+ years and I guess that is the road she started on when she picked her path? I’m trying to find my path, that balance, as you put it. Truth is truth, but there are truths that far outweigh others in importance and relevance to salvation and happiness of the human soul. I’m becoming more and more aware of all that I don’t know. It’s humbling to say the least, but exciting at the same time because the learning continues, forever! I am glad that you have found your path and you are finding joy in it. I feel that what you teach has done a great deal of good for a great many people, I’m obviously one of those.
I guess I just want to do the right thing like everyone else. It’s finding that right thing that is the challenge. I’m currently grappling with your teaching of “we create everything”. What do I really believe there? How much do I embrace? Thanks for putting your stuff out there. I think the right thing for me to do is to read and absorb and ask God what is right for me.
Thanks again for that unexpected reply. I really appreciate it.
September 9th, 2010 at 8:26 pm
Lol … I loved this Carol. RIGHT ON! Great insight for me as a 2 and good information for others. Since DYT, and the last comment that started a bit of tension, I am seeing that as I live more fully in my two-ness (I love my two-ness) … I am able to let go of that passive-aggressive stuff and feel more secure in speaking my truth. On the other hand, with EFT and DYT I have become much less OVERLY sensitive about stuff and more direct. Thank you so much. Truly, thank you Carol for living your calling. My life is so much better today. My type 4 secondary is being seen as an asset also … instead of as my evil side …lol. It often felt that way because it’s seemed a contradiction to my subtle, soft two.
September 21st, 2011 at 2:04 pm
Diana, I would love to hear more about how you’re integrating with your Type 4 “evil side” (lol, SO TRUE). I’m a 2/4 too and what you wrote really piqued my interest, and you’re clearly ahead of me on this road! BTW, I can do a really phenomenal Type 4 silent treatment too. The comparison to Dementors on the T4 pity party page is perfect.