Question:

Hi Carol,

I started EFT a few months ago to try to release us from the constant severe debt problems that we have had for about 20 years which seem never ending. I have noticed though that since I’ve begun tapping, asking my angels for help, applying the law of attraction & releasing my limiting beliefs our financial situation has got worse than ever. Is this normal? Do things have to get worse before they get better? I am scared to continue in case we go over the edge financially (we are that close) and lose everything.  Please help/advise.

Many thanks
Mog

My Answer:

Dear Mog,

First, let me say my heart and compassion go out to you.  It is not fun to struggle like you are, especially when you are doing so much to shift your experience.

There may be a couple of reasons why this is happening:

1. Consider the possibility that you are bringing up so much “stuff” that everything is coming through faster and stronger, so it can start to turn around more quickly.  What I mean by this is, if you were not doing all the processes you are using, maybe your cycle of showing yourself how deep it goes would have taken months, so be glad it is going so quickly even though it feels scary.

2. I sense some fear and urgency in your expression.  Please note that when we use these tools from a place of fear to try and ‘prevent’ something bad from happening, we are in a very weak and shaky place and the tools can not and will not work for us.  The methods I teach need to be supported with a high level of belief and faith that they will work and a confidence that your life is going to turn around.  Consider the possibility that you are in a lot of fear and that your fear is canceling out your efforts.  Focus on tapping on your fears and beliefs around losing everything and how scared you are of that.  Also tap out the belief that things have to get worse before they get better; you evidently have that belief if that is what life is mirroring back to you!

3. Let go and let God.  We are not the healing power and the tools you are using are not the healing power.  They are just methods to help you align your energy and open it to let God step in and shift things for you.  This again requires faith on your part.  Make sure you spend some time imagining what you want, and feeling—truly feeling—what it would feel like if it were happening now.  Then turn it over to God.

I don’t know if you have read my book, Remembering Wholeness.  It would really be supportive for you.  You can check it out by clicking here.

God Bless You,
Carol

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Question:

Dear Carol,

When doing a clearing do I need to create a “safe place” if there wasn’t one at that time?  I was watching the clearing video with the sister with skin issues. I need this clearing too. You said to find that little  girl and take her to a safe place and talk to her and reassure her as you begin the clearing. I am troubled because I had NO safe place I can think of at that station in my life. Do I create one or invent one in similar settings or do I bring that little girl to my current home where I have made it safe? I am troubled to discover that I can’t even think of one safe place in my entire childhood.

Thanks,
Saralynn

My Answer

Dear Saralynn,

Yes, you can imagine a safe place either one you think of in this world, or you can even imagine a safe place in heaven.  Your inner child is not present in this space and time, she exists in your mind and feelings, so you can create whatever supports your healing with the gift of your mind and imagination.  That is the point of doing this, to give this part of you something she never had which will be very healing of itself.  I like to imagine a place with God and angels, a warm and loving place where all my needs and all the needs of “little Carol” will be met.  Be the loving, caring adult to your inner child, this will help you let go of looking to others to fill her emotional needs, which only backfires anyway.

God Bless You,
Carol

Question:

Dear Carol

Good grief–when I just looked at a picture of Glenn Beck,

I was shocked that his picture and the description the journalist gave, totally fit Type 1, upward, light movement and I saw it.

As I was reading about his uncanny ability to come up with new ideas and possibilities–a mile a minute, I looked at his picture and thought he is the absolute picture of randomness, circles, and points of stars.  Probably with a very strong secondary type 3 which carries him through to accomplish things connected to his ideas.  Or his staff carries through.

I am curious–did I read him right?

Thanks–Marnie

My Answer:

Dear Marnie,

You are close!  I see Glenn leading with a Type 2 subtle, fluid, flowing energy and a secondary Type 1 upward, light energy.

Here is what I see in his facial features: blended, softened cheeks, cascading outer eyes, heavy eyelids, elongated eyebrows, blended skin and hair color, graying hair that blends nicely with his original color, jaw and neckline blending.  His secondary Type 1 is seen in his apple cheeks and the circles in his nose.

In his natural behavior tendencies I also see him leading with a Type 2.  He leads with questioning and gathering a lot of details, he is not known to be naturally optimistic and to look on the bright side.  He wants his followers to start questioning things and be skeptical, which is very Type 2.

I am not making any political commentary here, it is purely my purpose to share more information about Energy Profiling, particularly Face Profiling.  I hope this helps.

Thanks
Carol Tuttle

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Question:

Dear Carol, 

I am a type 3 who took the online Dressing Your Truth course in the fall.  It has made such a difference in my life.  I have done a few EFT sessions with some of your DVD’s and online offerings, and I am finding that I am really mellowing out.  Things aren’t bothering me like they used to.  Now I am wondering if perhaps I am a type 2.  Is it possible to be a “mellow 3?”

Thanks
Sonja

My Answer:

Dear Sonja,

What you are experiencing is all your energies coming in to alignment as you live true to your dominant natural expression – your Type 3 active, reactive, determined nature.  I would use the word “ease” over calm.  You are more “at ease” with being yourself which will naturally feel more balanced and harmonious in your inner experience of self.

The energy clearing work you are doing is also helping release the stressful energy you have been carrying, without it, you are not as easily triggered.

I would say you are becoming a balanced Type 3! Balanced with all the other energies in you. Way to live your truth and let life support your true nature.  I am sure you are seeing things manifest with more ease and synchronicity in your life.  Congratulations!

Love
Carol

Question:

Dear Carol,

Foremost, thank you very much for all that you do. You are very dedicated and passionate about what you do.  Now my question:

Now that I have been doing some searching, discovering, practicing, clearing and releasing, what’s next? How do I really know that they have worked or I have cleared one particular obstacle?

Another one:
I have identified, thought, and tapped on all my childhood issues, but still having hard times not being angry with my parents and continue feeling a victim. Do I continue tapping?

Thank you,
Ana

My Answer:

Dear Ana,

Thank you for your kind words.

Your question suggests to me that you are trying to “figure out” the best way to go about your healing. Emotional Healing is not an intellectual process.  One of my greatest lessons in my healing journey was the discovery that my “mind” could not heal me by figuring things out!

Here is what I suggest.  Let go of figuring this out and pay more attention to your feelings.  Every time you feel the “lie” of shame or anger you have more power to claim back from the story of your childhood. It was just a lie you took on that you are still believing.  Continue to tap out the lie! Make sure that once you clear it to ask God to fill you with love and to imagine your life how you would want it to be.

How do you know if it is working? You no longer believe the lie, you no longer feel like a victim, your life reflects back to you support and love, and even your parents begin to change!

This work is a process that opens you up to your true self over time.  Be patient and keep using the support tools.  Let it be more fun and ASK God and angels to SHOW you that it is working, we often miss those clues as they can be subtle.

Good for you to love yourself enough to find and live your truth.

God Bless You
Carol Tuttle

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Ginny emailed me with the following question:

Carol,

I have studied masculine and feminine energies and sexual polarity for a very long time. I just watched your 4th video on the My energy profile assessment. You said that masculine and feminine energies are no longer relevant. Your husband, John, is a type 2 which means yin and you are very yang. If masculine and feminine energies no longer matter, where is the sexual polarity in that? Isn’t that just as important in a marriage? It works for you and John because you can still play the energy of opposites. You just play the masculine instead of the feminine?

I would love to hear your input on this topic, because I remember reading about sexual polarity in your older ebooks on marriage and relationships. I felt as though you were throwing all of that out when I watched video 4. I’m just beginning to become familiar with the energy types. Can you please clarify this for me?

Thanks

Ginny Walker

Here’s my response…

Dear Ginny

Great question, but you are not clear on what I am teaching though. Energy Profiling does not
make the masculine and feminine irrelevant, and I am sure I did not say that. What I teach is
that Energy Profiling makes the cultural stereotype of the feminine being yin, and the masculine
being yang, obsolete. I lead with my feminine and with the influence of my yang Energy Type.
My husband leads with his masculine and with the influence of his yin Energy Type. I play the
feminine in our marriage and Jon plays the masculine. I’m a yang feminine while he is a yin
masculine. So this leaves the feminine/masculine polarity intact. You could have a Type 1 yin
feminine in partnership with a Type 2 yin masculine. You could also have two Type 4 people
together or two Type 3 people as I have seen every combination.

The feminine and masculine are being redefined with the shift from the Pisces era to the
Aquarius era. This means we are moving from a dominant/subordinate pattern to one of
partnership with no dominant/subordinate in the couple arrangement. The stereotypical pattern
in the Pisces era has been the dominant male with the subordinate female. As is the case in my
marriage, understanding my yang feminine nature and my husband’s yin masculine nature has
allowed us to create a partnership where both of us lead equally while using different movements
and natural expressions.

I play the feminine because I am a woman; Jon plays the masculine because he is a man. It just
looks different than the stereotypical female/male roles of the past due to our Energy Types. I
am grateful for Energy Profiling as it has been a great blessing to help Jon and I understand each
other better and to give up old, unnecessary patterns of the dominant/subordinate to create a
beautiful partnership where we both are equal and honored.

Ginny, if you have only gone through the online course and have not yet read my new book, “It’s
Just My Nature!” then I recommend you read it because I go in to a lot more detail about the yin
and yang in the book. You can get a copy at the My Energy Profile website.

Thanks,

Carol Tuttle