Ask Carol: Help! How Can I Share This With My Husband Without Him Thinking I Am “Kooky”?

I hear this question a lot from women who are eager for their husbands to learn more about energy healing and energy profiling.  They are afraid their husbands will think they are “kooky!”  In this video, I give you some AWESOME tips on how to do this and what to be mindful of, which will open the energy for your husband to be receptive and honored.

PLEASE NOTE: The Face Profiling service I mention in this video is no longer available.  We have replaced it with several online Face Profiling video tutorials to teach you how to do the Face Profiling yourself, which is available as part of our Energy Profiling Bundle. You can purchase the Bundle by clicking here.

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Carol Tuttle

Carol Tuttle is a teacher, speaker, healer, and best-selling author of five books. She has dedicated her life to helping people worldwide create the lives and relationships they desire. She blogs to support you in creating your ideal life.

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  • Holly

    I love when you echo what I am learning. I told God I wanted to emprove my extended family relations – love them more… things that have and are bugging me are in my face. I find myself getting upset and mulling it over. BUT then I stop and remember that I asked. I ask for forgiveness of God and ask that I will continue loving them as well as stand up for myself when needed… I have been asking that everyone comes out a winner. (type 1)
    Thank you for being so to the point with us. I LOVE your gift. THANK YOU for being willing to open your mouth and risking looking KoOkY, it is amazing how one person can hold such a powerful ligth to bring others to God for healing.

  • Pam

    Great reminder. I need to hear/read that about once a month.

  • Natalie

    I held back for a long time with letting my husband know how much I enjoy the “energy stuff” based on his judgments of it in the past(and I still do hold back somewhat)I “hid it” even to the point of never keeping my books or audios out around him; and talking to friends who liked the same things in private in another room or when he was gone. But I did finally look at that and feel that I was NOT being true to myself, and I did come out and tell him that I loved it, and was going to be true to myself and pursue it as much as I wanted. I now read, listen etc. no matter if he is there or not. The funny thing is he didnt even seem phased by it! And here I thought I would be causing so much friction in the marriage, but what was really causing fricition is my resentment of “not being able to be myself” when I was the one preventing me from being myself by assuming and hiding who I was. Go figure.

    • Carol

      Thank you Natalie, that was awesome. Spoken with such clarity…way to speak your truth!

  • Dianna M.

    Carol This may off topic a bit but I wish you could find a way (push) to share your work with the local news channels because some of the famale anchors are looking SO opposed to what their type is with bad haircolor, makeup etc. Being so off makes it hard to WATCH them. It would be such great publicity and of course benefit them tremendousely!

  • Bonnie

    This rings so true for me! I was initially very open about my excitement in energy healing, and my Type 4 husband openly told me it was kooky! Like Natalie, I kept a lot of my learning and discussions private. But I am finding balance. Instead of trying to convince my husband that he needs this information, I am just working on myself and sharing these things with my friends. But as I am becoming my best self, he is becoming more open. He may never embrace energy healing, but I’m okay with that now.

  • Mary

    I’m grateful that my husband is 100% supportive. He went through my closet with me to get rid of all my non-4s. There were several things I wanted to keep because I liked them and they were “close” – he wouldn’t let me keep them! He said, “no, don’t settle for close. even being just a little off will not let your true beauty shine through”! He wants DYT to have a website that hubbies can access so that they can buy the right gifts!

    • Carol

      Hi Mary, thanks for your comment. Our Dressing Your Truth online store is open to anyone to shop at! Send him to and have him shop away!

  • Kathy

    Thanks so much for sharing…just had yesterday a very deep talk with my best friend about this topic and we both came to the deep conclusion that if I feel I need to change somebody the trouble is really within me..what is this person triggering within me and the true need is to take care of that so that, yes, I will be more liberated to be a channel for Heavenly Father’s unconditional love for that person..I also found that Heavenly Father is very eager to help after a prayer to help me to see this person from His viewpoint and as Carol shared then mysteriously I would find myself every time after such prayer, seeing the incredible preciousness of that person and not his weakness which then helps to truly treasure and respect him or her.

  • Kaylee Ririe

    I’ve said it several times … and I’m going to say it again: THANK YOU for speaking up and sharing! Your work has changed my life – very literally. Without equivocation, I know “Remembering Wholeness” came into my life as a gift from God and an answer to prayer. In my own experience, as I share my healing with prudence and confidence, others respect what I share even if they continue to choose to create struggle in their own lives. I have also experienced my own clearing work directly affecting the energy “network” in which my family lives. Thank you for trusting and honoring the intention in which God created you. At many levels, because you have, I can, too.

  • Carol

    Thank you Kaylee for answering your call to show up in your truth. I admire you and your family so much! I am looking forward to our next trip down south!! Love you lots.

  • Catalina

    Carol, I cannot thank you enough for this answer to my question. I actually submitted the question a while ago and listened to this answer then and truly took it to heart. You were right, of course, I wanted to “perfect” someone who had already been made perfect by God. Although, I believe my intentions were loving. I wanted him to feel better about himself. However, you helped open my eyes that I was seeing a reflection of myself. Most of the “stuff” was mine. Through prayer and EFT, I have been dealing with my own wounded inner child and loving my family for their truths and gifts. I have shared information about DYT, EP, and EFT with friends and family, some more openly than others. I bought Remembering Wholeness for a friend, and she is still thanking me–actually you. And now when Al comments on some TV personality’s behavior, I’m happy to chime in that that person is expressing [her] natural Type 1 energy. She’s so bubbly and cute, I just have to smile. I get no response, but I’m just going to put it out there. I also express myself to him, “I’m a Type 4, honey, I naturally have a need to be more structured and uncluttered.” Or, “Sorry honey, that might have been a little T4 blunt.” So, I thank you, Carol, for sharing your gift with the world and for reminding me always to start with God and then give myself permission to live my truth–EXACTLY! I’m already perfect in God’s eyes, but everyday, I look for ways make myself better.

  • Carol

    Thank you Catalina, I love what you shared.